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Thursday, 21 September 2017

Recently, I've been very open about my experiences of online dating.

There was once a time when I was slightly ashamed of it and wouldn't even tell my friends, but then apps like Tinder and Plenty Of Fish came on the scene and all of a sudden everyone was a lot more open about it and the idea of meeting strangers online became the norm.

I also realized that it's something a lot of us have been doing for a lot of years anyway and meeting strangers (safely!) online kind of goes hand in hand with our generation; we've made friends on Myspace, bloggers like myself have bonded via Twitter then met at blogging events in real life and I've even discovered bands online which have led me to meeting some awesome people.

There is still a bit of stigma around it though and I can sort of see why. I used to have the notion that if I told people I was online dating, they might think it's because I'm not pretty enough or approachable enough to meet men in real life. I definitely do not think that anymore though as I soon realized that everyone and their dog was on some form of dating website anyway!

But I digress. Here's some benefits of online dating if you're single but still a little cautious about giving it a go.

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...even when it doesn't evolve into a relationship. Online dating is pretty great I guess in a way that you sort of already forge some form of connection before meeting in real life and that connection doesn't just go away if things don't work out, so many people often go on to become friends afterwards. This wouldn't happen if you just gave your number to someone in a club. Similarly, you could also make contacts this way. I've made contacts in music, graphic design and photography in the past, which is pretty cool.

For a while, I used online dating apps and websites just to go on dates and not necessarily for a relationship. This led to some real fun dates which is often one of the best parts of being single. Some of my most fun dates included going to an Arctic Monkey's gig, spending the day along Southend seafront and drinks at the quirky underground 1940's themed bar, Cahoots. 

I used to be so shy and that's part of the reason why I turned to online dating. I could never approach a guy unless I was drunk and on a night out, but online I found myself coming across as super confident and this paid off in my favour. I think this helped me become more outgoing in real life too, especially as the messages exchange online often led to meeting in real life. Also, heading down to Southend to meet a stranger for a first date was way out of my comfort zone, but it paid off and I ended up dating said guy for around six months. 

Even though I know plenty of people that have forged relationships through the use of Tinder, it is still an app that is often considered the most playful of all of them and you're never judged for whatever you're looking for on there. If you don't want a serious relationship or just want to dip your toe into the world of online dating, apps like Tinder or for adult dating can always lead to a bit of fun!

Strangely enough, I've had more relationships/'dated' more people online than I've had 'single first dates' (if that makes sense), which is weird when a lot of people think online dating is used for people looking for just one thing. I've been with my boyfriend for just under seven months now and in that time we've gone to Blackpool, Brighton and even Romania together (I'd never have seen myself visiting such a beautiful country before meeting Vincent!) and are super happy and in love. The proof is in the pudding = online dating does work.

Want your friend to set up your profile for you and find some dates? There's a website for that. Actually looking for something long term and serious rather than just fun? Take your pick of many websites aimed at those being a bit more serious with their choices. You can also find websites such as a Bedfordshire dating site (perfect if you really want to look local), over 50s dating, over 50s dating Northamptonshire, and, again websites that are more area specific; a Tayside dating site and over 50s dating Tayside. No matter what you're looking for, there's bound to be a website or app for you.

Meeting strangers these days isn't what it used to be. A lot of websites do necessary checks when allowing people to sign up and you usually get a good feel of a person and their character before meeting in person. That said, many websites recommend some safety measures too, such as meeting in a public place and letting someone know beforehand where you're going to be. Like I said, luckily it's more accepted these days so there should be no embarrassment with telling a friend that you're off on a date with someone you met online, and lots of people have a get-out plan with their friend in case the date isn't going as well as planned! Plus, who can forget that bar from St Albans that went viral last year for the notices in their toilets offering daters a subtle way to leave the bar in case they felt any unease on their date...

Will you be giving online dating a go or have you in the past? Let me know with a comment!

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Saturday, 16 September 2017

I've wanted to be (or be with, at least) a rock star for as long as I can remember and music is one of my biggest passions. I have the uttermost respect for those who have that talent to create music but unfortunately, despite a failed attempt at learning guitar when I was younger (I learned two songs on it before giving up on practicing), I don't have that talent.

That said, I have always wanted to learn another instrument after my failed attempt of learning guitar and I've been leaning towards drums for a good few years now. I think I'm pretty good at rhythm and I do Pound Fitness, which I've been told doesn't make you good at drumming at all but is still kind of similar.

So when AB Music Academy got in touch and asked if I wanted to give one of their trial sessions, I couldn't say no. 

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The company is based in Acton (in West London) and at their quant studio they offer both vocal and instrumental tuition, as well as hosting live events, performances and workshops. Students have also gone on to create bands, and the studio can also be used for recordings and rehearsals as well as lessons.

I headed down on Wednesday and found the studio easy to find in a quiet part of London. There were many train problems that day however, with a few delays, but if this hadn't been an issue then the journey would have been relatively simple. 

Though Acton is a long way from Luton, anyone based in London will find the studio easy to get to and not too far at all. 

My taster session took place with co-founder Florin Pascu, who greeted me warmly and first spent some time telling me a little bit about the studio and what they offer there. He then taught me some basics of drumming, such as what parts of the huge drum kit I'd be using during my session (Hi-Hat, Snare Drum & Bass Drum), and briefly explained to me how to read some basic music.

Reading music sounds super complicated but he made it seem really easy. Of course we only went over a few basics so that I could learn a relatively simple beat, but I felt like I took a lot away from it and hadn't expected to actually learn how to read a bit of music during my short taster session.

Next, I was given some headphones to protect my ears and Florin taught me how to hold the drum sticks correctly. He explained that when playing drums, it sounds best when your hands are relaxed rather than stiff.
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Then it was time to actually drum. We took it slow, getting used to using just the Hi-Hat first, before slowly adding the bass and snare drum. It took me a few goes to put it all together of course, but it wasn't long before I settled into a rhythm. 

I found the best way was to not think too much and let my hands do what they're supposed to; often I made a mistake when I was overthinking things. But of course this is natural being that I was learning a new tune.

By the time the half an hour was up I'd pretty much gotten it and felt really pleased. Even now I can remember the beat in my head and want to practice!

Florin even said that it was clear I could pick up the rhythm quickly and recommended I come back; so at least I wasn't a complete failure.

Will I continue?

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I think I definitely will. I enjoyed and learned enough in such a short time to feel confident that I can continue learning and will go far, but of course London is rather far for me to travel for regular drumming lessons.

AB Music Academy offer lots of great deals on bulk lessons however and I really love that they offer taster sessions which means you don't waste a lot of money booking lessons when you're not even sure how well you're going to take to an instrument. It's a really sweet deal.

I'll be continuing lessons perhaps maybe monthly, but overall I was very impressed. I've held back from looking into lessons before as I thought I might find studio's too professional or lessons too expensive, but this wasn't the case here. My taster session was very relaxed and informal and when I messed up, Florin was encouraging as opposed to judgemental.

For anyone that has even a small interest or flicker of passion to learn an instrument, I'd 100% recommend booking a taster session (and hopefully regular lessons after that!) with AB Music Academy. 

I learned so much during such a short time and think it's amazing that by spending just half an hour with the academy, I was already sold on the idea that drums are the instrument for me.

Would you ever pick up a new instrument? Let me know!

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Thursday, 14 September 2017

The last couple of posts I've enjoyed writing sat at my own desk in my very own blogging area - which is a far cry from where I normally blog (in bed, usually!).

I've wanted my own desk for blogging for a long time now but unfortunately lack of space in my room just hasn't allowed it. Likewise, at my boyfriend's place, I've wanted my own space in general, especially as I spend more time there than at home. Therefore, when Kit Out My Office got in touch and asked me if I wanted to try out a desk, I jumped at the chance.

The only thing is, I didn't realize quite how tough it would be trying to decide on the perfect/right desk for me. Being that my boyfriend and I are looking to move in together, I wanted something that would last and that I could take to the new place, not just a desk that looked pretty now.

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Firstly, I wanted a typical all white desk, much like most bloggers. But as I scrolled through, I just wasn't sure. I wanted a drawer with the desk, but the all white desk and drawer just didn't seem ideal for me; nor did a white desk with a natural oak drawer.

In the end, I decided on an all over natural oak finish with one drawer, put in my order and tried to stop myself buying everything office/stationary related at TK Maxx until the time came. (I failed. I bought a few things, but just a few!).

I also chose the size W800mm which was the perfect width when there's not a lot of space. I did like how I had the option of two different sizes though. There's also a lot of variation on the website too; there's desks with drawers either side, desks with cupboards above and much more.

My only worry was the drawer really, as I thought with the desk being smaller in width, my legs would end up hitting it. This hasn't been a problem at all, however, if it had been, the drawer can easily be removed or moved further over.

Speaking of which...I put the desk together myself (my first attempt at DIY!) and I am very proud of myself.

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Anyway. Once the desk was set up, I couldn't believe how sleek and sophisticated it looked. It's ever so lovely, the natural oak finish is a really durable but versatile colour and the finish is so smooth.

Since getting my desk, I've slowly been personalizing it bit by bit. It has a way to go yet - currently it overlooks either ASDA out the window or some dark curtains but I'm hoping once we move the room around, I can set it to face a wall and exhibit some cool and inspiring graphics above.

In the meantime, I've picked up a lot from TK Maxx. The year planner and matching desk planner I already had, and I also picked up a gold magazine/folder rack and some cute sticky notes that also match the whole theme I have going on. I picked up a candle too and I currently display a little snow globe from our time in Romania. There's also a cute coaster for my cups of tea and now I'm on a look out for a small desk lamp and a cute Halloween decoration for the upcoming season.

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So it's still looking very simple (but clean, which I like!) but it's nice because it's all mine; my own little feminine and sophisticated area.

But I think the best part about it is just having my own space; especially to blog. The drawer is spacious for things like my spare notebooks plus some extra bits like my laptop charger and such. I've also been using it for different things like doing my makeup (carefully as not to spill any on my shiny new desk!) each morning and just in general.

Beforehand, I'd either blog in bed or on the sofa, or try and make some space on my boyfriends desk (near impossible as he has two PC screens, a keyboard and lots of random junk) but now I have my own area where my laptop can be kept at all times. It's great too because obviously when my boyfriend is home and gaming, I can really focus on getting stuff done which is hard to do when you're lying in bed, half slouched down and sleepy. Sitting up at an actual desk gives me more motivation and helps me do what I need to.

Overall, I'm really pleased with my desk and love it's look overall - as well as how I've personalized it. It's a real investment as I feel this is going to last me for years and years to come and is probably a desk I'm going to take with me as I move into our flat and hopefully one day a house soon.

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Monday, 11 September 2017

I love any hacks that come along with saving or earning any extra money. I'm on nearly every cashback and survey site going; and I've tried quite a few different saving methods over the years; from putting the remainder of a paycheck into a different account the day before my next pay or just saving old pennies.

I wouldn't say they entirely failed - I do have a bunch of pennies hiding somewhere at home - but I wouldn't say they were entirely successful either.

Which is why I recently took some time to research into some new saving methods; after all, I have a lot to save for now and I'm pretty sure you will all benefit from this post too what with Christmas fast approaching!

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Chip is my latest go-to money saving app and so far I am thoroughly impressed. I installed the app in July and have earned/saved £41.72 - although, bear in mind, I didn't actually start getting paid from my new job until mid July. This money has come out of my bank account bit by bit without me even noticing.

The way it works is this. Chip is like a personal savings bot (you can even chat to it via the app) and you give the (totally safe) app access to your bank account so that it can analyze your spending. Every few days, it calculates a small amount that you can afford to save, based on your spending. 

So, rather then choosing a set amount to put aside each month, this app takes into account the fact that some months you might be spending more than usual. It calculates just enough so that it doesn't affect your day-to-day life, so, for example, you don't transfer a huge amount and then find yourself short at the end of the month. Likewise, it really analyzes very well, so you don't save just a tiny bit and then spend loads of money that you have left over unnecessarily.

I was a bit wary at first but I decided to give it a go and I can honestly say it feels like free money as I've not even noticed the money being taken.

You also get a notification a few days beforehand to let you know how much will be taken so if you really feel like you'll be short, you can cancel the transaction. Plus, the bot shares super funny gifs throughout which is always a win in my eyes. You can use the chat to report a problem, so although you speak to a bot, if there is an issue, an actual person will get back to you.

You can pause the app, withdraw your money anytime and can even change how you want to save: at first I had my saving level set to low, then, when I started getting a regular income, I changed it to high.

You can make your own manual savings too, just in case being able to see saved money in your own banking app makes the temptation that much easier to spend it, and you can also save in your overdraft - and we all know how hard it is to save when in your overdraft.

It's extremely smart, especially for millennials like you and I. I'm very much the type of person to see what I have left over at the end of the month and save that but, as we all know, all too often this does not work.

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And yes, it's entirely safe and legit. Their website states:

Chip is regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA) through its agency status with Prepaid Financial Services (PFS). You can look PFS up in the Financial Services Register (FSR) and you’ll find us on the PFS website too. Sorry about all the TLAs, btw.


Chip has a data control licence - you'll find us on the ICO register - and we always act in full compliance with the Data Protection Act. Your online banking login details are protected using 256-bit encryption and Chip does not store your data.

That's cleared that up then.

The app has recently released a new feature to help you save. You pop in details such as how much you want to save and what for and it automatically updates you on how long it will take you to save that amount based on your current activity. It'll send you regular reminders as you get closer to your goal too.

Finally, there are always tons of incentives to earn that bit more - recently, the app offered a £10 sign up bonus for friends and, currently, if you get a friend to sign up, both you and your friend you will get an extra 1% interest (per friend) for a year.

PSST! - my bonus referral code is JLB3BY if you're interested in grabbing this 1% interest!

Please note, I have of course used my referral code in this post (every little helps!) but you also know how transparent I am with these types of posts. This is not a sponsored post, I genuinely have had a great experience with Chip so far and often like to share any tips on this blog when it comes to saving money. Alternatively, if you are interested in using Chip but would not like to use my referral, you can learn more at

So, overall, the fact that I've managed to very easily save close to £30 (which would undoubtedly be more but I've only had two paychecks since using the app!) since July without even noticing it is a total win in my eyes. It's perfect for my current financial situation and my lifestyle too.

Would you ever try Chip? Do you have any budgeting apps? Let me know!

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Saturday, 9 September 2017

Every now and then I stumble across a new brand that I fall absolutely head over heels for. This time, I discovered the brand via Facebook advertising, and that brand is the edgy but sophisticated Little Lies.

The brand is described as offering 'boho' fashion, home and accessories but I also think some of their things are really quirky and totally up my street for being a bit different. The name, Little Lies, comes from the classic Fleetwood Mac song and they have the most amazing 'favourite things' list.

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I mean who doesn't love number seven? It's one of my favourite feelings/experiences in the whole world...

The website has a thriving music section where artists are featured and playlists are created, which I love, and they even have their own blog.

Skulls and skeletons feature regularly so, yeah, I also love that obviously!

Although pretty much everything from the site is to die for, I'm particularly lusting after their homeware range.

Here are some things (across the whole site) that I really want right now.

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This cute but eye-catching little necklace is a stunner. Dipped in 24 carat gold and otherwise completely natural, this necklace gives off an edgy-but-boho feel. What's great is that each product differs ever so slightly (due to the Chrysoprase being natural), which means each one is one of a kind.

This desert skull jewellery dish is small but that doesn't make it any less special. It's perfect for rings and any other small bits & bobs of jewellery and I love that it's a desert skull, meaning it'll no doubt match my floral cardboard stag's head I aim to one day get. The gold horns give it a real sophisticated vibe too.

Oh my. These hilarious but cool candles are what first drew me to the brand; of course my favourite is the rock hand but how cool are the peace ones and swearing one too? These would look great on any mantlepiece and would also double up as a great conversation starter. Plus, the colours they come in are uber cool too; gold, white and silver. They just need to launch a black one now - or would that be too obvious? You can buy all three, the pair or a single one.

Another skull, of course. This skull candle jar is really something and I love that once the candle melts, you can use it for something else (my bet's on cool cocktails). The wax is actually natural soy wax (so vegan!) and burns for up to 40 hours. There are also bigger skull candles available too (as in not in a jar), but I like that you can get a second use out of this.

I've only had a quick look at the fashion but this playsuit immediately caught my eye. The model is totally rocking it with an oversized hat and loose curls, but the floral pattern can mean you can go from boho-rocker to super girly and sophisticated with just a change of accessories. The playsuit is aptly named 'Stone Roses Playsuit', and it's only £34 which is a total bargain; I'd have expected it to be at least £40...!

These are just five products I've got my eye on from my new favourite brand, Little Lies, but I haven't even properly looked through the site yet! The fashion is really versatile and wearable, no matter what your style is, and I love that the homeware is so different without coming across as tacky or trying too hard.

Have you checked out Little Lies yet? What do you think? Let me know!

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Wednesday, 6 September 2017

When it comes to travel, sometimes there are so many beautiful countries and places to stay that I can't help blogging about - even if I haven't yet had the opportunity to visit!

One (or two!) of these places are the luxurious B&B's of  La Dimora dei Cherubini in Florence, a timeless and classy classic travel location no matter what time of year or type of break you're looking for. Like Berlin, or Amsterdam, Florence is the kind of place that is always popular and never grows old.

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When I imagine a B&B, I usually think of a small but quaint family run kind of place with breakfast on offer - but  La Dimora dei Cherubini breaks all of these misconceptions. Although it has a homely atmosphere, a stay at  La Dimora dei Cherubini also offers modern and charming rooms with a welcoming atmosphere and classy and luxurious decor.

Both B&B's are close by to the station Santa Maria Novella in the center of Florence, with only a short walk between each. Whereas #DimoraDegliAngeli and  La Dimora del Centro offer charming and intimate rooms, both also offer some unique points too.

La Dimora degli Angeli Florence is set on the third and fourth floors of a historic palace, Via De’ Brunelleschi, and La Dimora del Centro Florence is located in the 19th century palace of  Piazza della Repubblica. This palace was proved to be an inspiration for the poet Eugenio Montale.

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Each B&B also offers rooms overlooking
Duomo of Florence and feature en-suite bathrooms, free wi-fi, air conditioning, safes, satellite TV and more. 

If you can drag yourself away from the room, guests will find Galleria degli Uffizi nearby and shops in Via de’ Tornabuoni. 

If you've got your eye on a visit to Florence anytime soon, then a stay at La Dimora dei Cherubini is certainly worth visiting. 

What do you think? Would you stay at either of these luxury B&B's? Would you like me to do more blog posts focused on specific hotels and places? Let me know!

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Tuesday, 5 September 2017

I'm a big fan of theme parks but Blackpool Pleasure Beach is hands down one of my all time favourites. 

I have so many great memories of going there as a child and in fact a visit to the park - or a ride on the The Big One - is a good enough reason alone for the long drive to Blackpool! Until I went recently I actually used to always have dreams about the famous Pepsi Max (seriously, I know it's officially called the Big One now but I can't help call it the Pepsi Max still!) roller coaster too, haha.

Therefore it's no surprise that following our time in Blackpool, a post dedicated to Blackpool Pleasure Beach would pop up.

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Blackpool Pleasure Beach is one of the most visited tourist attractions in the United Kingdom since it opened in 1896. Though it has a lot of modern roller coasters, it's also a very classical theme park. It's one of the only theme park's in the world to still have a traditional wooden wild mouse roller coaster and still has some of its earliest and classic rides such as Steeple Chase, Grand National and Derby Racer.

This is one thing I love about the Pleasure Beach, the fact that it has so many classic elements and rides. It's nice to go back and see the rides I used to go on when I was younger, like the funky Alice in Wonderland ride which is for kids but I always insist on going on still.

There's a real mix of rides too with different themes throughout the park. So no matter what your age or your thrill factor, there's something for everyone. I still insist everyone should go on the Pepsi Max at least once though as you really can't beat the view at the top, nor the feeling when you hit that first drop.

Food wise; there's a lot on offer too, though not much for vegans that we could find. I guess most of the traditional theme park foods were pricey, but we enjoyed grabbing a hot drink in one of the restaurants by Valhalla which had a cute french chalet theme inside. 

It's also supposedly haunted! Shows such as Most Haunted and Great British Ghosts have both featured the park and it's well known for the haunted ghost train ride which is haunted by a former ride operator named Cloggy.

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As well as rides, there's also crazy golf, amazing shows, scary walkthroughs and Ripley's Believe It Or Not. Personally though, my favourite rides are the Pepsi Max/The Big One (obvious choice!), Valhalla (an amazing ride themed around Viking's and visually stunning), Alice's Wonderland, Revolution, Infusion (even though it was closed when we were there) and Avalanche (basically, all of the big ones!). I also love the Chinese Puzzle Maze and Impossible.

It's affordable, too. Although you now have to pay just to enter the park, as opposed to being able to walk round it for free, I kind of have no complaint about this because why would you visit the park and not go on any rides?! The park has a Rainy Day Return policy too and, what I didn't realize, entry to the park also includes entry into Ripley's Believe It Or Not.

Finally, the park also offers some events where it's open in the evening too in collaboration with Ministry Of Sound! This is a great opportunity to not only ride the biggest coasters in the dark but also see Blackpool lit up with the illuminations and the tower.

So, as a whole, Blackpool Pleasure Beach is well worth a visit. Some tips I'd recommend though are:

- Get there nice and early as although the park may seem small, there's a lot to see and do.
- Don't be scared to visit on a grey day. There's the Rainy Day Return policy - as explained above - and its likely to be less busy on a cold day which means less lines.
- Go on Valhalla last, or first (if it's sunny) as you will get very, very wet. It's very, very worth it though.
- See a show too.
- Plan what you're eating beforehand as there's so much choice and once it gets busy, you don't want to be walking around lost for ages and hungry. Alternatively, pop just outside (it's okay though, you can return afterwards with your wristband!) and visit Faringos for some yummy vegan food.

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Sunday, 3 September 2017

I'm kind of over summer. 

There, I said it.

Don't get me wrong; I've enjoyed the hot weather and long summer nights but now I'm ready for winter again. It doesn't help that at work we're currently getting in all our winter accessories; thick scarfs, chunky boots, fluffy hats etc.

Therefore I've decided to do a winter fashion wishlist with Esprit! I want to buy alllllll the winter wear...

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First of all, I'm loving this casual deep red jumper. It looks like a really good fit and that it's thick enough to keep warm but thin enough to not be too overbearing which is a common issue with winterwear I find. I actually don't own any basic winter jumpers; only corny Christmas ones or patterned seasonal ones so a basic one like this would be more versatile. 

This stretch mini skirt is a classic which can look uber sophisticated when styled correctly. If wrong, it can look quite immature but with a sophisticated pair of knee high boots (or ankle boots with knee high socks!), it can help put together a really cute and feminine look for winter. Though only available in navy, I reckon it's super versatile and can help achieve that perfect and classic winter look.

I'm actually really digging the preppy look lately would you believe it! It's quite odd for me as you know I always love to dress a bit edgy if I can but the prepping look is really growing on me. Therefore I love this college style coat which is perfect for winter but also a little different than your average winter coat - plus it's bang on trend.

Oooh, this dress has really caught my eye, even though it's totally different to my normal style. It's also quite grown up looking which is unlike me. It's super beautiful though, I love the fit and the design is really sophisticated and eye-catching too. I really like the length of it and feel like pairing it with some thick tights and chunky boots would make it just right for the colder months.

And of course to complete the wish list a nice pair of winter boots is a must. Not so different from other boots, this pair still has the classic formalities of a winter ankle boot but still caught my eye - likely because of the buckle. Again, these are also versatile, so they're a win in my eyes.

So there we have it; a cute mini winter fashion wishlist with Esprit. What do you think of the items featured? Let me know!

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Friday, 1 September 2017

It's finally almost winter, yay! In fact it's Autumn at last which is good enough for me. The winter fashion is starting to come out in shops, the nights are getting darker and TK Maxx are already stocking their Halloween range - major yay. 

I may have had to pull myself away from it several times to avoid buying about five packs of cute but edgy Halloween napkins. Do I need them? Do I heck. But am I still going to splurge and by tons of Halloween homeware to display all year round? You betcha.

Anyway. Now that we're saying goodbye to summer, there's tons to look forward to during these upcoming winter months. Here's what's in store for September...

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I have already mentioned this to be fair but Lindsey Kelk's latest story in the I Heart series is dropping this month. I Heart Forever is about our favourite herioine Angela trying to stay out of trouble when her husband Alex goes travelling. There's a wedding, the usual work/crazy best friend issues and Christmas is looming too, plus, Angela is said to have a secret. Due to the nature of the last book, I think she's going to be pregnant; I'm calling it. Even if my guesses are correct it's going to be a great book and it's been far too long since I've checked in with Angela and her crazy adventures.
I Heart Forever will be released on the 7th.

...but I won't be ordering a pre-release. Why? Because I'll instead be buying the book on the 13th (if I can wait that long that is!) at an event aptly named An Evening with Lindsey Kelk, Paige Toon and Louise Pentland. I'm so excited! The event will include talks with all three authors, who I absolutely love (I have read every single one of Lindsey's books and she's just so cool, I want to be her friend, I absolutely adore Paige Toon's writing and Louise Pentland just seems so down to earth). There will also be drinks and canap├ęs and the chance to meet all three authors afterwards to get your books signed. I'm super excited to meet Lindsey because I feel like our writing is very similar so I can't wait to ask her for some advice on publishing a book. And, of course, I'm going with one of my favourite blogging buddies Lisa! There are still tickets left if you'd like to join...
An Evening with Lindsey Kelk, Paige Toon and Louise Pentland takes place on the 13th.

Well, I can't say I'm exactly a huge fan of IT as I haven't read the book and only watched the (very long) original half heartedly once, but the trailer for the remake looks pretty damn amazing and I do love my horror movies! There's not much I can say about this as I'm sure you all know about it, but my brother, my boyfriend and I are going to book in to see it at the IMAX so I can't wait.
IT will be released on the 8th.

September is normally a good month for those of us that love a good binge, but there doesn't seem to be much returning this time around - either that or I'm out of the loop American Horror Story returns on the 5th with new season/theme Cult, but Shameless isn't back until November and unfortunately Stranger Things won't be gracing our screens until the end of October. Still, I'm more than sure AHS will keep me entertained for this month, especially as it's taking on a different idea this time around and focusing on the aftermath of an actual real life event; the presidential election. 
American Horror Story: Cult airs on the 5th.

It seems my next adventure/gallivanting location (as my mum used to say!) is going to be Brighton in a few weeks time. The Maine are touring the UK once more and as I missed them on their last tour - and now have a boyfriend to do fun stuff with - I thought it would be nice to forgo their London date and instead pop down to Brighton to see them. We've booked a hotel so we're going to spend two days there, eating vegan food, exploring the lanes, spending pennies in the arcades and rocking out at the gig (Vincent's first!). It'll be a far cry from the last few time's I saw them in Brighton (which resulted in a bonfire on the beach and getting drunk and dancing with John in a funky and intimate underground jazz club), but hey, my groupie days are behind me now!

What are you looking forward to this month? Let me know with a comment, especially if there's any new/returning TV shows you can recommend! 

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Tuesday, 29 August 2017

I have a confession to make.

Usually around five seconds after I walk through my door at home, I tend to de-pant. There's nothing better than pulling off a tight pair of jeans after a long day at work or slipping out of a stylish skirt on a hot day to instead relax.

Sometimes I'll go for the option of light leggings instead or small pajama shorts, but generally I almost always say goodbye to jeans/pants/trousers/skirts etc. I simply don't feel relaxed enough until I do.

In fact - another confession - this is actually my current blogging space (though this is soon to change so do keep your eyes peeled!).

And there's NO way I can wear something as restricting as jeans in bed, can I? Especially when I've got fresh sheets on the bed.

I recently heard about the Pants Optional movement which has been taking place throughout August, so I'm definitely not the only one!

The general idea is to acknowledge that so many things can be achieved with or without pants and that when being uncomfortable is no longer an issue, life is better. I mean who doesn't want to spend the whole day lounging around in their favorite pair of underwear?

I want to share a bit with you all about how I embrace the pants optional lifestyle and when pants are definitely not needed, so that we can all join in on this movement! (and yes, these are all clean & PC. Mostly.)

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I don't have my own place yet and neither does my boyfriend; so for the meantime lazy clothes or less are a necessity on a Sunday. I fully plan to insist on naked Sunday's once we get our own place though. On the rare occasion that I do have a Sunday off to give in to the pants optional movement, I usually start the day with breakfast in bed and a catch up with New Girl and Made In Chelsea in 4od.

Oh yes. Is binging Netflix with pants on even a thing?! How can you sit or lay for hours at a time when you're not comfortable? It just doesn't bare thinking about. My next big binge is going to be Stranger Things of course, but I'm also trying to find the guts to watch The Mist and I'm currently catching up on Jane The Virgin. 

Sometimes you just run out of clean clothes because you're too lazy to do any washing until it all piles up at the end of the month *raises hand slowly*.

Well. This one's obvious, isn't it?

Well I know this one is kind of dangerous. But it's also kind of fun to dance around the kitchen half naked cooking along to your favourite music, no?

How about you? Will you be joining the pants optional movement? Let me know!

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Sunday, 27 August 2017

So as you all know, during the second week of our holiday, my boyfriend and I rented a car to road trip around the country!

We had so much fun, though the driving was a challenge for me. In Romania, they drive on the opposite side of the road. I'm also used to driving a tiny Ford KA so to go from that to a huge car was tough. Plus, most drivers in Romania are crazy, especially in busier cities!

Anyway, we got up to quite a lot but in hindsight I think we needed more than one night in each city. Still, here's some highlights from the trip.

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Transfagarasan is known as one of the most stunning roads in the world and likewise is the most famous road in Romania. It takes you high up through the mountains, offering stunning views, before an exciting winding trip back down. It's definitely not for the faint hearted but somehow I did it! It was scary but the views were totally worth it and it was a really amazing experience that I'll never forget.

We spent one evening in a remote cabin in the mountains, which we found on Airbnb. This was a really special night and we chose this unique location because it coincided with the Perseids meteor shower. As it goes; the sky was actually pretty cloudy that night but we managed to spot a few shooting stars as well as a really epic thunderstorm.

Bucharest was lovely; though a bitch to drive around. After some stressful driving into the city, we checked into the hotel and headed off to a nearby vegan place. After this, we walked to a local shopping centre to have a look around the shops and stopped on the rooftop area, which was really cool. It had restaurants and bars, as well as grass, fountains and plenty of places to relax - plus beautiful views over the busy city. Then that evening we went out for a few drinks - it turns out Bucharest is very popular with tourists and even has it's own busy strip. We stopped in a really cute cocktail bar which offered a very varied list of unique cocktails - I can't for the life of me remember it's name but will pop a link back into this post when I remember later. Then we found a kind of western/burlesque bar called Bordello. They had live music on by this awesome girl band and we had a bit of a dance and tried some more cocktails. This was probably the only night we got really drunk on holiday and it was really fun/romantic.

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Formidable Joy | UK Fashion, Beauty & Lifestyle Blog | A Romanian Road Trip | Travel | Romania | Road Trip | Cluj-Napoca

Cluj was one of my favourite places, even if I did keep making rude jokes about its name, haha. We arrived pretty late this night so the first thing we did was throw our bags into our very boutique hotel (which had an amazing waterfall shower) and head out again for some food. We found a bar/restaurant by the river which was stopping serving food soon so we ordered some food for takeout and sat by the river drinking delicious Mojitos whilst waiting. Once ready, we took the food back to the hotel and ate it on the cute terrace which was sweet. The following morning we got up early and took a walk around the beautiful city centre. We visited a really fun and interactive museum where I learned a lot about the history of Romania, and then we visited the large church in the centre. Cluj was such a beautiful place, I can't wait to return one day.

For our final night of our trip, we headed to the seaside! Even though it was late afternoon when we arrived, the first thing we did was drop our bags at the apartment and go for a swim in the sea. We were the only ones in there but strangely despite it being around six, the water was still really warm. I'm glad we got to go for a swim! We took a taxi into the city afterwards (which was scary enough on it's own as the taxi driver was crazy!) and had some food at a hotel and restaurant on the beachfront. The following day we spent a few hours in the local shopping centre and were delighted to find they had the Body exhibition there, which I've wanted to see for years now. So we also visited that.

Off course this is just a small preview of our time on our road trip; there are other places we visited and a lot of memories to last us a lifetime! All in all we packed in quite a lot despite only really having an evening and sometimes a morning too in each place. It was the perfect way to see snapshots of the country though from visiting eye-watering beautiful mountains to upbeat and quirky cities. I was so sad when our trip ended and I still am; I definitely miss Romania already and can't wait to visit again soon.

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Friday, 25 August 2017

Oh, The Sims. I used to love The Sims when I was younger, even though I never played it properly. I'd get bored playing the lifespan of an average sim and would instead spend ages building the perfect house, using money cheats to make myself rich or killing my sims in really stupid ways.

My boyfriend recently downloaded The Sims World Adventures for me on his PC and I've become such an addict since - and this time I play it properly!

Here's some things I've learned since delving back into the crazy world of The Sims.

(Yes, I am a 27 year old woman...)

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Clark had no ambition and wore his beanie hat ALL THE DAMN TIME, whereas Jean Luc Beaumont lived in another country (and was rich there) but was nothing but a lazy coach potato once immigrating to Simsville.

When it came to creating my ideal Sim, I played it cool and waited for him to ask me on a date...only to find he already had a partner. I'D ONLY CREATED HIM A FEW HOURS AGO (TWO DAYS IN SIMS LAND) and he'd already shacked up with my best friend and literal partner-in-crime (from back when I was a criminal mastermind). WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO NOW ALEX?

The infamous 'it doesn't count if it's in another post code' rule from MOVIE is A LIE. It does count. If you fall in love with someone (Jean Luc Beaumont) in France and cheat on him in Egypt (to be fair I only cheated to find out information...) it will get back to him. And everyone. You will be branded a cheat, even back at home. Shame on you.

Days are so short and you NEVER have enough time in a day to do everything. Basically you wake up, shower, eat breakfast, go to work, come home, have dinner, have about two hours spare to watch TV/read a book, go to bed then do it all over again the next day. And don't even get me started on trying to have an active social life; you don't talk to your friend for a week because you're too busy and then suddenly you're not friends anymore. Okay, maybe that last bit is a bit unrealistic, but it's really bloody hard to balance everything with work and a social life and whatnot, especially if your life long goal is to become a rockstar/travel the world.

In real life I'd never touch a shovel or anything but in The Sims my garden is blooming! I'm growing plum, apple and pear trees, all my meals are home cooked from freshly grown vegetables and I've even got a Death Flower bush - whatever that is..

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Don't worry, I don't plan to seduce Mortimer, I just miss those guys. They were a staple in The Sims, what with Moritmer's moustache and Bella's glamorous red dress...

Okay so that's more of a question than a lesson but still...

Yeah, I didn't think the police would hire me after being a criminal mastermind either. But hey, I figured my knowledge of the dark criminal world would help me progress further. I still got burgled though. A lot. Although I had the option of setting free the burglars when I did, though the policeman told me off when I did that...

Seriously. Please can I visit in real life?! The gardens are beyond pretty and relaxing.

If you really want to get ahead, you need to put in overtime, study in your own time, socialize with your colleagues and more. This reflects in real life too, no? You can work hard during your 9-5 hours at any old job but if you really want to stand out and get a promotion, you need to think about other areas of your career too.

Okay I have no idea if exploring tombs in real life is actually fun or not (I'd assume so but that's because I'm weird and always wanted to be an archaeologist when I was younger) but I can bet it's pretty damn hard in reality too. Max Irons and his rather off putting moustache in Tutankhamun is proof of that.

You insult someone a bit (my favourite insult is 'Call someone's mother a llama'), poke them and then disappear into a cloud of flailing limbs. After, if you so choose, you can console someone and apologize to become friends again. It's a rather easy process and did wonders for my reputation with Jean Luc Beaumont.

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